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13 Jan 2025 12:44 PM
13 Jan 2025 12:44 PM
nothin much on here today @Oaktree , on pause til tomorrow. have bloods I could be doing think may be fasting though, will have to look.
What were you doing at Tafe? sorry if you already said.
13 Jan 2025 12:54 PM
13 Jan 2025 12:54 PM
Going to be doing Cert IV mental health peer work. Hope it goes well. I have crashed and burned with study before because of the stress. It’s only a 12 month course. Should be fine as long as I don’t put too much pressure on myself.
13 Jan 2025 01:05 PM
13 Jan 2025 01:05 PM
That does sorta ring a bell @Oaktree was to do with peer worker thing?
If where you go is any good they should try and make any 'reasonable adjustments' necessary to help you get through
13 Jan 2025 01:17 PM
13 Jan 2025 01:17 PM
It’s a well known tafe and they do have an office to go to to get adjustments for disabilities or conditions
13 Jan 2025 01:26 PM
13 Jan 2025 01:42 PM
13 Jan 2025 01:42 PM
*curls up in a dark corner and cries*
13 Jan 2025 02:30 PM
13 Jan 2025 02:30 PM
Hi @avant-garde sitting with you, and here if you want to talk about what's got you feeling this way ❤️
13 Jan 2025 04:13 PM
13 Jan 2025 04:13 PM
Stupid naive church people who don't know what trauma, triggers or recovery look like... I wish they knew how foolish their comments are...
I mean "I hope you still had a peaceful day"
You put someone who coercively controlled me, lied to me, stole from me for the better part of a year in the same room as me! What about any of that sounds peaceful!!!
*grips my knees and keeps crying*
13 Jan 2025 04:26 PM
13 Jan 2025 04:26 PM
Oh I'm sorry @avant-garde what a frustrating interaction, it sounds as though it has really been playing on your mind.
If this comment truly was from a place of not understanding, do you feel as though there might be opportunity to let them know why a comment like that wasn't helpful given the situation, even if it's just a brief conversation to try to prevent it from happening in the future?
For now, is there something that you can do for yourself this evening to show yourself a bit of extra care? It sounds like it's been a hard day
13 Jan 2025 05:36 PM - edited 13 Jan 2025 05:37 PM
13 Jan 2025 05:36 PM - edited 13 Jan 2025 05:37 PM
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